I love this song.  Totally from my generation but still cool.  Cyndi Lauper is amazing.  And the song keeps making a really good point: Girls Just Wanna Fun.  I’ve learned how important it is to just keep fun in the forefront of every day.  And if others won’t “let” you have it, you gotta make your own.  For years now, I created these theme nights where I’d watch a certain movie or TV show (Ex: I know you like that Gypsy Wedding Show), then I’d create a meal to go along with it.  In your case, I might try making my own version of Gypsy “wedding cupcakes” and eat them as I’m watching. I might also start a wedding box of ideas for a wedding I might be apart of later in life.  I could create favors, rip out pictures from magazines of great ideas, or collect stuff and put them in my box (just a shoe box – you could decorate it with wedding gift wrap).  Maybe your new sister in law could give you some.  Sometimes you gotta make your own happiness.  Choose happiness, joy, bliss and above all… have fun.