This has been a tough lesson for me to learn: you’ll know someone loves you by their actions.  I think I tend to get lost in the language of love.  Some guy tells me he loves me or he needs me and I just run to him like a magnet. You know the phrase “actions speak louder than words?”  Why do you think I continue to ACTIVELY put posts on this site?  A.  Because I love you.  B. Because I do not want you to fall for some guy’s “I love you” if it is not genuine.  I want to make sure you do not make the mistakes I have made.  Will you make them anyway?  Yes.  You already have.  Oh well.  Maybe you can learn it faster than I did.  Xxoo