Just in case know one has filled you in, the fellas are supposed to chase YOU.  If they don’t, don’t sweat it. Probably better not to go after them.  You don’t want to get into the habit of chasing boys.  You can encourage them subtly (smiling, being friendly, etc), but don’t push it.  No matter how much you like him.  Be cool girlies!  Dating is kinda like coloring.  You gotta pick the right “crayons” or your picture is a disaster.  Pick the boys who pick you.  Not the crazy ones, of course.  There will be lots of boys who chase you who you’ll want nothing to do with.  Trust your gut.  If you’ll get one thing out of this experience that your in, it’s the knowledge of what your instincts are telling you.  It’s very important to be as happy as you can be.  Don’t be “blue.” Be “purple.”  Be passionate (red) about you and your life but always be aware that you need to keep your cool (blue). Lots of metaphors today, I know. But, you can handle it.  Just remember two things:

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I know, you can’t wear red lipstick.  Well, Easter is coming up.  I’ll put some in your Easter baskets.  You can wear it when I see you next. In the meantime, please be good to yourselves, good to each other and imagine yourself in red lipstick!