Your older brother has unfriended me on Facebook.  That hurt.  I’m not gonna lie. (Oldest brother is well and continuing to study for bus job – I checked in with him last weekend).  Older brother and I talked about parasailing at some point.  That would be fun.  Perhaps someday, when all this mess is over, you both can show older brother that I was thinking of him on his birthday.  Don’t do it now.  Sometimes a fella gets set in his mind on a certain course and there is NO changing his mind.  Your brothers are “trying out their wings.” They need to struggle awhile before they realize they might wanna try a different course.  You’ll do it too.  I’m quite sure.  And when you do, I’ll keep loving you (from afar if necessary for my own sanity).  But I’ll remember the adventures we talked about having and dream for the day they become a reality.  Someday, older brother and I will go parasailing.  Until then, would you like to go?  Looks like fun!  Check it out!