Well, that’s not exactly true.  We cry.  Just not where someone we don’t trust will see us.  Everyone needs a good cry sometimes.  It’s healthy.  Otherwise, you are not emotionally open to all the good things that life can give you.  And I do believe those good things will come to me when I’m ready to receive them.  That’s what I’ll be doing the next few months, healing and preparing to receive the man who can give me his whole heart.  I like this song because Fergie doesn’t beat up the guy for being some jerk.  Maybe he is?  It doesn’t matter.  She takes responsibility for her own happiness.  She wants to find some peace and serenity – good things to look for after a break up. Life can be too quiet after a break up – ya know?! I know you know.  🙂 But that’s where the peace and serenity can also be found.  You start reading books you’ve been wanting to read, doing things you’ve put off with friends… it can be a time of amazing growth.