The first year after Grandpa’s death was the hardest. I felt like I had my left arm cut off. It took a while before we could start going through his things and giving them away.

I did keep a few things back for you both.  You each have one of Grandpa’s sweaters and one of his shirts.  Also, his handkerchiefs – which are helpful when you are crying and he can’t be there to give it to you.

I’ve put these things in the closet here and I’ll keep them until you are able to come get them.

Grief is very tricky business.  Do let yourself grieve for the loss of Grandpa.  Even if you must do it quietly in your own heart.  And talk to him.  I know he’s up there and I talk to him all the time.  I know it sounds crazy, but give it a try.