You may remember some years back I started a tab on the website entitled Sisterly Advice.  I haven’t added to it in quite a while.  But since SOMEONE has started dating, I thought it might be a good time to refresh that tab.

Most of my advice comes from the book Why Men Love Bitches, by Sherry Argov.

Purity might remember that I let her read a few chapters of it when she spent the night at my house. Remember, bitch is really an acronym for the following idea:

B = Babe – That’s you girlie!

I = In

T = Total (Complete!)

C = Control

H = of her Head

DO NOT let someone get you so upset that you lose yourself.  That includes the fellas.  In fact, fellas will sometimes do off color things just to see how you will react.  And if you gotta call ’em on something – DO IT!  But do it with strength and dignity.  So… here is Sisterly Advice #5

5. When a woman is trying too hard, a man will usually test to see how hard she’s willing to work for it. He’ll start throwing relationship Frisbees, just to see how hard she’ll run and how high she’ll jump.

What do these relationship Frisbees look/sound like?

“I really like girls who wear red nail polish.” (He’s looking to see if you start wearing red nail polish.  He’ll start throwing other Frisbees).

“I really like girls who know how to give me BJ.” (He’s looking to see if you’ll give in to this request at some point soon.) It’s always best to appear to be innocent of these things.  If you are not, just don’t talk about sex too much.

Wait at least 90 days before you jump into THAT frying pan.  If he’s a good guy, he’ll wait!  And…you’ll get to decide whether he’s good enough for you! That’s the REAL question after all.

When you are on a date, just focus on having fun and being a fun date.  Don’t get too heavy. And don’t let him get too heavy either.  Let him come to you slowly.  Men like to chase girls.  So let them! 🙂